Rosario, Argentina: The Epilogue

Hello Everybody,

 

I hope everyone has recovered from their bloated bellies and the 3 days of Thanksgiving leftovers.  Lol-  I don't miss that part of Thanksgiving. 

 

Well, I just wanted to write a little more about Rosario and the people we met there.  I think Ozell would agree that we have socialized more in this city than most others.  And it is the first time we have met locals who befriended us as much as they did in this city.  I think it is safe to say (but it is Ozell's story to tell if he wants) that he met his first "rewarding date" on this trip, and I was fortunate enough to also meet another fantastic guy.  You probably recall from the last post the basics of these friendships- mainly:  a great guy named Federico worked in our hostel and checked us in, Federico and Ozell hit it off and we spent some free time together with Federico, Federico invited one of his friends to go out to the bar with us, I was too socially inept to realize that this other guy, Jose, was interested in me, we learned the next day that Jose and I were interested in each other, we all hung out again the following night (Thanksgiving) and had a good time, and that is where I ended the story with the last post.

 

On Saturday evening, we met up with Federico and Jose again.  Ozell and I went to the gay club Gotika the night before and only had a so-so time.  The main highlight was the fact the gay club was built inside an old church (hence the name Gotika as in Gothic) so the layout was pretty cool and blasphemous.  And we all know how much I appreciate blasphemy!  Lol-  I am still waiting to hook up with a guy named Jesus so I can rightfully cry out, "Jesus fuck me!  Jesus fuck me!" like the possessed little girl in "The Exorcist".   Hahahaha  Anyways, Jose and Federico invited us out to this club that had a band from Buenos Aires playing that night.  They both liked the band, and after the band was finished, the club had DJs spinning some pretty damn good electronica dance music.  In fact, it probably was the best music I have heard on our trip.  It was also good to see Ozell dance.  He hasn't danced much in a while.  Even I tend to dance more than him on this trip.  I just don't think he has felt like really dancing until that night.  It was a combination of the music, the company, and some booze I guess.  Ozell is a great dancer, and I really like watching him when he is in his own world.

 

Well, I was also watching someone else that night- Jose.  My attraction to Jose evolved over the three times we were able to hang out.  At first, I viewed him as Federico's friend and "wingman".  When I first saw him, I was indifferent.  I thought he was physically attractive, but so what?  Then when he and Federico asked Ozell questions about his webpage and the his personal philosophy "Xiante", my interest started to increase.  Now I knew I was dealing with two guys who were what I tend to call "aware".  People interested in what I believe is a more veritable "reality" than what each of us tends to accept as "reality".  Those people are relatively rare, and meeting them starts to grab my attention.  But still, that first night at the bar, I didn't really see Jose as much more than a potential "trick".  Then on Thanksgiving night, after I was able to spend some time alone with him, I started to become more and more attracted to him on a personal level.  I was beginning to catch glimpses of his inner beauty and serenity.  His mannerisms and expressions started to make me smile and feel happy when I was around him. 

 

I liked watching him at the club on Saturday.  I stayed in the back of the room while the band was playing and watched Federico and Jose get into the music.  It was their band and their show to enjoy.  Ozell was with me too.  It was endearing to watch Jose sway and get drawn into the show.  Then when the electronica music started, we all danced towards the back of the room.  This was a straight club, and although it may be friendly, it is not as free spirited as most clubs in the USA.  Glances were made.  Subtle looks and touches happened.  It was fun to flirt like that.  I think Jose had at least one other suitor also.  Lol  We all went back to Jose's place again.  Ozell and Federico did their thing, and Jose and I retired to his room.  I had a wonderful evening with Jose.  The first night we spent together, he fucked me because once again, my plumbing didn't work after drinking too much.  That was highly unusual given the fact that Jose is mainly a bottom.  He told me that he hadn't topped in a long time, but he really enjoyed it.  There was plenty of evidence in the condom that he did.  lol  This night it was my turn to return the pleasure.  I purposely did not drink a bunch at the club in preparation for the after hours, and it definitely helped.  After a little encouragement, I was able to fulfill my duties and share with Jose a really nice time.  It was also nice to spend an evening in bed next to Jose.  Ozell got to enjoy that the last time, but I had to leave early so Jose could go to his study group.  I didn't mind at all at the time because I wasn't as attracted to Jose then.  It was rewarding to be by him this time though.  It capped a great evening and a very short mini-relationship.  Lol

 

The last great surprise was one of the best e-mails I have received.  Jose sent one to me the next day in reply to my sophomoric e-mail to him superficially thanking him for the invitation to see the band, the weed, and the good sex.  Jose's e-mail was much more meaningful and heartfelt.  It reinforced that he is far more evolved than his 22 years would indicate.  I sent him an e-mail back that was less superficial than my first, and thanked him.  I also stated that I wish I could have more time with him because he has a lot he could teach me.  I would like to think that he could also learn from me too.

 

The point is that this trip has been equally weighted between visiting historical and cultural sites and meeting some wonderful people. I think that is the normal for most people.  actually, I think most people probably are more weighted towards the unique people they meet.  but this is the exact opposite for me.  I have always been more drawn to the historical, natural, and cultural sites than the people I meet.  So in some ways, I am considering this trip a surprising success for my continued evolution and improvement on my own weaknesses.  I am happy and grateful.

 

I am really happy to be sharing this trip with the man I love and who supports me finding love with others.  Ozell is my soul mate.  :)  Thanks for the dinner tonight, Babe.

 

Cheers to you all,

 

Sean